"Father and Son Have 'The Talk' – The Yoga Pants Talk" (Walker 2013)
I turned to my son, “you know, even if the girl chose those pants to make her butt look cute, you still shouldn’t stare or comment. Her wanting her butt to look cute is not the same as her wanting you to comment about her butt. And staring is just rude, and makes some people uncomfortable.” He paused for a second, while the words sunk in. It was clear he hadn’t ever thought about what she wanted. In fact, I doubt he was even aware that his staring had any impact on her.